Jessica and I met in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia when we were 19, as we were both in town doing an internship at a Details-style men’s magazine. We hit it off immediately and I visited her in London several times, she came to L.A., we went to Vegas, Dublin and eventually she moved to New York, where we once found an abandoned Wassily-style chair on the street. She’s one of my favorite women on the planet and she gives really good gifts (Exhibit A: Her last present to me was the Alexander McQueen: Savage Beauty exhibit monograph.) She’s living in New Orleans at the moment and her fiction debut was recently published in PANK.
What is the first gift you remember receiving? I don’t remember receiving it exactly, but it was a red checkered mini suitcase from my father when I was around four or so. He always wanted to me to have my own luggage to go places, and that first piece set the course of my life.
What are some favorite gifts you received over the years? I’m lucky enough to be friends with someone who’s a gift expert. Highlights from her are my Clare Vivier foldover clutch and a Kate Spade sparkly gold clutch. Aside from beautiful, functional things, I love gifts that allow for journeys such as my cutie little VW Cabrio (my first car!) and tickets to see John Guare’s play Free Man of Color (with Mos Def) at the Lincoln Center a couple of years back. The former has given me unbelievable freedom, and the latter continues to inform my understanding of the city I live in, and American history.
Recently, for no reason at all, a friend sent me a platter from Fish’s Eddy inscribed with words, “The sighted will never know: to touch words and have them touch you back” in Braille. When I received that, all I could think was that the real gift was the giver.
What types of gifts do you like to buy people? Books! I try to consider what people might be interested in absorbing, research and buy accordingly. My finest gifting hour to date was a cross-country trip I took my mother on to Morocco, though of course, in light of all the gifts she’s given me, it was minor.
What’s your go-to website or shop for gifts? Amazon, and in real life antiquarian and independent bookstores. I also adore jewelry from A Peace Treaty and Scriptura for gorgeous stationery.
Current favorite charity? 826 National.